being married

sambungan prev entry..wah..ada mcm siri Spa Q tak bersambung2..hehehe

Popular qstn after i became Puan

"sonok ke kawin' 'ha..camne perasaan jadi wife' 'dh berisi ke blum?"(i even received this qstn a week after nikah..wth!haha)

1st day kawin-We were all alone in d hotel...it felt awkward..seriously guys..i was asking myself where are the attention that i've been getting for the past one month and during the 3 wedding events?where r my family?my frens?why all of a sudden nobody called or smsed me?:(

So I called up my bestfren and she came to the hotel to visit me& tagged along my lil sis..siap bwk nasi kukus lagi..sweetttt...lucky hubby can understand :)

later ptg dropped by my guy besfren's ofis to give away some cakes and quietly met one of my ofismates to pass some wedd cakes...(takot ofis kecoh plak sbb tgh honeymoon patutnye)

there are moments yg tiba2 si ex bridezilla ni nangis..huhuh..sian hubby asik kene pujuk pdhal die xde buat salah ape2 pun

1st week tu bykla tangisan kluar..teringat rumah..family..frens..plus..'it' was kinda painful..opss sorry for being open here but b2b kene ready jgk persiapan ni.hehe..i know not all camtu..the unlucky ones like me..:(...(to guys pls stop reading this entry..kanak2 bwh 18sx pls click X...mak..jgnlah baca...malu tauuuuuu!!!)

I had to ask around..am i normal..my gf said..seminggu mmg akan sakit..damnnn!!

But for my case..it took me 1 month ok!that is after asking tips from other ladies,bloggers(u know who u r..thank u!hahaha)and my cuzzin jgk.

During the early days,Hubby did everything to make me happy..the sweetest he can be...but I was still adjusting myself in this new world I've jez stepped into.

In my heart..why does everyone say 'kawin tu bestttt'

Throughout the 1st mth..i kept coming back to my parents house..kejap tertinggal barang la..ape la..esp when my dad gave sms like "hai..diam je..."

During d fasting mth,mom will sms me everytime she cooked nice food..perghh..mestilah terliur kan!But we cant let MIL bukak puasa alone kan..shian dia..so puasa last yr mmg paling sikit berbuka kat luar..twice w frens..sekali dgn company masing2..sekali je berbuka berdua..the rest either w my family or MIL.

Sangat2 penat sbb tak biasa bangun sahur kan...naik kete je tertido..mmg pelik sgt perangai ku time tu.asal masuk surau je confirm2 duduk 'meditation'..hehehe..We frequently argued over small lil things which i think becoz we were both hungry n knackered.Ada ofismate yg perli..aik..kenapa lepas kahwin nampak makin kurus jer..;p..Tapi raya ok..hepi sgt dpt balik kampung plus sedara2 n aunty2 hubby seme sporting2 dan slambe..xyah nak control2 cun sgt..(tu yg gemuk balik!)

Entering d 2nd mth..i enjoyed cooking cuma xde time la..blk keje dh kul8 lebih..basuh baju dkt sejam(rumah hubby pakai semi auto washing machine sbb air lebih suci katanya),kene kemas bilik orang lagi ;p..vacum plak jenis yg kene masukkan air..huhuhu..damn tiring i tell u..

Weekends we've got open houses to attend(mase raya),kenduri kahwin,cukur jambul..kwn2 ajak lepak..takleh mengelat sbb dorg attended our wedding..ade yg tolong2 for our wedding..now dat we have 2 families then we cant miss any side..tak aci kan nanti..hehehe

So kesimpulannya awal2 kawin mmg penat..x sempat pun nak enjoy2..hehehe

Butttt...jeng jeng jengggg

Approaching the 3rd mth,everything seems to fall into place..dah kurang rase penat..naik kete pun dah x boleh lena dah..hehe..hubby is getting sweeter day by day..once a week boleh date w each of my gf..catch a lunch w my guy besfren..cuma dgn my bestfren yg pengapit tu jelah dpt chance bfast sama2 hari2...sbb keje dkt2..;p

After 3 mths,he can tell which tube color can match well w my dress and wut color of necklace can match the tube..sungguh detaill ok..!Rase seperti sebilik dgn gf!huhuhu..

Skrng dah boleh comment if my hairbun jadi ke or tak cantik..my eyeshadow kene tambah color ape..darker or lighter

Pegi MAC pun dah tau cari bedak no ape!

Daytime we r chatting as if we're not staying together..he sometimes mengade2 says he misses me n all..:)Tapi senang la..xperlu jemput dan hantar balik mcm dulu2 kan..heeeeeeee.....

Pegi holiday ke Melaka,Penang&KK tak perlu mtk permission from my parents..setakat laporan semasa tu ade jgk..hiks

Borak hari2 pun mcm tak habis2 citer...apa saja..asalkan tak mengumpat org sbb hubby paling tak suka cite hal org lain..baguskan..i guess im learning to be a better person :)

Boleh joke tp tak boleh menyindir org cth;

"isk dorang tu..couple bukan main lama..tak kahwin2 jugak"

"Orang kaya tapi nak beli bla bla bla tak mampu ke"

I'm sure all guys hate assumptions rite..pd dia org tak bertudung tak semestinya jahat..org kaya tak semestinya tak berkira..Gossip2 citer betol dia kasik but never never judge ppl..takot nanti kite dpt mak mentua mcm tu jugak or maybe nanti bakal menantu kita pun camtu..oleh itu jauhkan..hehe

Seems like this entry is getting too wordy i'd better stop babbling

Last word..mcm org lain kata...

KAWIN TU BEST! :D